INFJ daybook : Having Sixth Sense

The reality is that INFJs do tend to be more sensitive 

than the majority of the population.

Okay, so yeah i just realized that i'm sensitive tho. It was hard to figure out the 'sensitive' word actually. I always wonder what the right word to say it. I do always have empathy to everyone and everything, i do care so much, i always find myself know about what others need and feel and also think. I feel like i can figure out what my friends want from only looking at their face or act. And i just know now the clear explanation put down in words of who i am... I even thought that i might have sixth sense lol but yeah, i'm just 'sensitive'.

I don't know you can relate it or not ^^" When i said that i can know what others feel or want or think, i'm not kidding. I observe people and surrounding. Yeh i know you think i'm freak. 

It also works when i meet a new friend. I don't really know how but i feel like i can know whether she/he is a good person or not. I do observe people much and it's kinda tiring actually, but i can't stop it because it comes naturaly.

I can guess what my friends feel when they first come out from their rooms in the morning from their face. I can see what my friends probably think when i peek through their room from living room. There are a lots of moments of this thing, that i can't even tell because it's too much.

Too sensitive, it's not a big deal, right? or not? Somehow it makes feel like having sixth sense (okay i already told you before, sorry).  Before i find out this 'sensitive thing', I even told some of my friend that i have a sixth sense. Then i've just knew that it's not sisxth sense ^^" But still it makes me feel special. It's nice to be able to know or realize and also understand others. Like you can always there become the first person who giving your hands when someone needs help. And you don't need to make your friends tell you that they have problem, you can always understand them.

Yes, it's nice. But, hey have i told you that it's tiring?

I like it, but.. yeah i like it, but it's tiring and frustrate sometimes. Always knowing what others feel and think too much is exhausting. Sometimes i tried to ignore, but it's hard tbh. Because it always comes first even before i try to ignore it. And then when it happens, i end up with 'pretending not to care'. And then in the end... from the eyes of others... i become a not-so-care person. I also thought that i might be a not-so-care person but no, that's not it. I'm just too sensitive and know too much and it makes me kinda ignore some of them, yeah because it's too much. But, i'm not really agree with that not-so-care thing as my personality. Because i do care.

Okay, complicated, isn't it? I know. It's all just because too sentive. Lol.

Being sensitive also makes me hard to concentration in such noisy place. I always can't study if i'm not alone in a my room, well i can study everywhere but 'alone' is must. I remember this one, so one day my niece slept over in my house. And when i was studying, she came in to my room and sit on my bed reading magazine, while i sit on my desk. She didn't say anything, she just read in silent, but it successfully made me couldn't digest any word from my book. Geez. I also realized that when i'm doing my collage tasks with my friends in my friend's room, i left them and back to my room when they start to turn on some musics. I'm sorry my besties but i can't concentration. But thanks, my close friends know about it and understand me well. It's not that i don't like music or think that turning on music while studying is a bad idea. I do like it, i think studying while turning music is fun and can give a relax-vibe. I did try it sometimes, it was fun, but yeah... it ended up with me couldn't really absorb what i the book said ^^" But, well, you can say that i still can do my thing in a noisy surroundings but not as fast as when i'm in a such calm surroundings.

I was listening to some music i played from youtube when i was on twitter before i moved to blogger, but then i paused it when i stared to write this.

Scars To Your Beautiful by Alessia Cara

Howdy!

Back again here, not going to talk about INFJ tho ^^" but just wanna share about my kinda new fave song that i alr set it on my playlist :)

Soo... the song is Scars to Your Beautiful, the song from Alessia Cara. The more i know about the other title songs of hers, the more i like her. Well she's still young, looks pure, and she has very good voice! One thing that i like about her is when i noticed that she always had no-make-up and dressed with casual clothes on her every stage when she was performing Scars to Your Beautiful. She said on one of her interview that she wanted to show that girls just need to be herself to look beautiful! Yes! IKR! Haha.

She just wants to be, beautiful

She goes, unnoticed she knows, no limits

She craves, attention she praises, an image

She prays to be, sculpted by the sculptor

Oh, she don't see, the light that's shining

Deeper than the eyes can find it

Maybe we have made her blind

So she tries to cover up her pain, and cut her woes away

Cause covergirls don't cry, after their face is made

But there's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark

You should know you're beautiful just the way you are

And you don't have to change a thing

The world could change it's heart

No scars to your beautiful,

we're stars and we're beautiful

Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh,

oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh

She has dreams to be an envy, so she's starving

You know, "covergirls eat nothing"

She says "beauty is pain and there's beauty in everything"

"What's a little bit of hunger?"

"I could go a little while longer", she fades away

She don't see her perfect, she don't understand she's worth it

Or that beauty goes deeper than the surface

Ah oh, ah ah oh,

So to all the girls that's hurting

Let me be your mirror, help you see a little bit clearer

The light that shines within

No better you than the you that you are

(No better you than the you that you are)

No better life than the life we're living

(No better life than the life we're living)

No better time for your shine, you're a star

(No better time for your shine, you're a star)

Oh, you're beautiful, oh, you're beautifu-u-u-ul

  

INFJ daybook : Start! part 2

Alrite, this is me again! Still going to talk about INFJ ^^"

Hm.. i think i won't explain what and how's INFJ in detail but what i can say that INFJ is a personality type that's combination of introvert, intuitive,  feeling, judging, and assertive. It also said that INFJ has introverted intuition with extraverted feeling. 

As an INFJ, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you take things in primarily via intuition. Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit with your personal value system.

INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.

INFJs place great importance on havings things orderly and systematic in their outer world. They put a lot of energy into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define and re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk.

INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme example, some INFJs report experiences of a psychic nature, such as getting strong feelings about there being a problem with a loved one, and discovering later that they were in a car accident. This is the sort of thing that other types may scorn and scoff at, and the INFJ themself does not really understand their intuition at a level which can be verbalized. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their inner selves, sharing only what they choose to share when they choose to share it. They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive.

But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.

Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. This may result in an INFJ stubborness and tendency to ignore other people's opinions. They believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments. They have strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right. In deference to the Feeling aspect of their personalities, INFJs are in some ways gentle and easy going. Conversely, they have very high expectations of themselves, and frequently of their families. They don't believe in compromising their ideals.

INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective. They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their offspring. They have high expectations of their children, and push them to be the best that they can be. This can sometimes manifest itself in the INFJ being hard-nosed and stubborn. But generally, children of an INFJ get devoted and sincere parental guidance, combined with deep caring.

In the workplace, the INFJ usually shows up in areas where they can be creative and somewhat independent. They have a natural affinity for art, and many excel in the sciences, where they make use of their intuition. INFJs can also be found in service-oriented professions. They are not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks. The INFJ will either avoid such things, or else go to the other extreme and become enveloped in the details to the extent that they can no longer see the big picture. An INFJ who has gone the route of becoming meticulous about details may be highly critical of other individuals who are not.

The INFJ individual is gifted in ways that other types are not. Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement.

Hell yeah, the more i read about INFJ, the more i know that this personality type is sooo complicated, and i started to realized that that's why i often stressed, within myself tho >.<

Well, yeah i know, i'm sorry because i ended up with just copy-paste-ing about what's INFJ from another website tho, but i will try to post more about INFJ, well since i'm kinda interested with this topic ^^"

INFJ daybook : Start!

I'm here again, with random topic like usual ^^"

So, like two or three weeks ago i took MBTI online test. If you wonder what's that... you can googling it yourself. What i can say is MBTI is a kinda personality classification, so you can know your personality by taking MBTI test. Well, i didn't expect to take the test but page i visited also provides the online test. So yeah, why not. 

There are some pages or webs that provide MBTI online test, but i took this one https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test 

Well, actually i did the test twice, because the result was kinda unexpected. So just to make sure, i took the test twice, and i got the same result for both.

Like what i said before, the result surprised me, so much. And you know, the explanation startled me. Like, wow.  

The result said that i have the rarest personality. It's INFJ.

Okay, when i first knew that, i started to think that "Wow, so that's why i always felt like i'm different from the others?"

And after i got the result, i read their additional explanations about INFJ,

..and guys,

...that's what i always looked for, how to describe my mind, what i think, what i feel, like you know i often analyze people include my own self, and i had a hard time describing me into words, and voila, this result test just help me so much >.<


I didn't want this post to be too long, so i'm going to continue this on the next post :)

Cara Mengirim Paket Barang ke Luar Negeri dengan EMS dan RLN

Sekali-kali boleh lah ya Aku posting 'how to' ^^"

Jadi, Aku awalnya sempat bingung gimana cara ngirim paket ke luar negeri karena emang belum pernah sekalipun. Nah kemarin akhirnya berhasil ngirim beberapa barang dagangan ke beberapa negera luar negeri. YEYY!. Yang bakal aku bahas di sini adalah cara ngirim paket barang via EMS dan RLN ya. 

Oiya, apa beda EMS dan RLN? Jadi dua-duanya ini adalah produk layanan Pos Indonesia. Kalau EMS lebih cepet, kalau RLN lebih lama. Dua-duanya sama-sama bisa di tracking di web Pos Indonesia. Jadi kalau diibaratkan, seperti JNE yang punya dua layanan, yaitu YES dan REG (kalau YES lebih cepet, kalau REG agak lama). Begitu. 

1. Pastikan barang sudah di packing rapi ya. Pengalaman waktu datang ke kantor pos, barang cuma diperiksa sekilas dan kantor pos nggak ngerapihin lagi packing-an barangnya. 
2. Datang ke kantor pos terdekat. Ok, kantor pos yang bisa mengirim EMS dan RLN itu... semua kantor pos ya. Jadi ke kantor pos terdekat saja, ngga perlu ke kantor pos besar.
3. Serahkan ke petugas pos nya. Petugas pos bakal meriksa sebentar dan nimbang, sambil nanya isi barang dan harga barangnya.
4. Mengisi form. Kita bisa milih antara EMS atau RLN. Kalau saranku sih, kalau negaranya dekat, misalnya SG, atau MY, pakai RLN saja, kalau jauh bisa pakai EMS. Karena harganya juga jauh beda ^^"
5. Selesai. Note: resi jangan dihilangkan. Kita bisa ngecek barang kita sudah sampai mana lewat no tracking nya di web pos Indonesia. 

Oiya, kadang kalau kita mau kirim barang, tapi mau estimasi harga pengirimannya sebelum ke kantor pos, bisa cek di tarif di web pos Indonesia juga DI SINI Tapi fyi, harga di sini ngga sama persis sama harga yang nanti dihitung waktu di kantor pos ya, tapi harga di sini bisa buat estimasi. 

Untuk tracking pos kita DI SINI Fyi lagi, pengalaman kemarin, nomor baru bisa di track sehari setelah pengiriman. Dan kadang web telat update nya. Ada kiriman yang sudah sampai, tapi di web masih belum sampai. Dan juga kalau ada masalah di tracking-nya.. jangan panik, tapi langsung aja telpon ke call center nya :)

Alright Who Don't Like Kpop/drama, eh?

There's always people who mock korean pop or korean drama around us, right? At first, i thought that they don't like it because they really don't like it. I mean that, they already watched some episodes of drama or some videos of kpop but yeah.. that didn't suit their style. But, i think i'm wrong. 

They didn't even try to watch it, right??

There's a thing in this world that we hate without any reason. For example, i never eat even try to eat eggplant, i don't know the taste but i just don't like, without any reason. That's the same with people who said that they don't like kpop or kdrama i guess. 

I mean, who can resist their amazing dances, their visuals, their cool performances, their sweet story line on drama, who can??

I can't ^^"

The reason why this topic suddenly popped up on my mind isn't that because i argued with some anti-kpop/drama before, but... because of some of my friends are suddenly into kpop ^^"

They do like korean drama already, but really into kpop right now. I still remembered that they said they didn't like boygroups because they thought some boys dancing and singing together is lil bit nasty. But, they do like boygroup right now. They are into SHINee right now! 

Well i stanned SHINee so much back then, hmm... i still like them tho but not that much. But my friends just... i can't... how to say this, lol, they play Sherlock every morning and scream 'SHINee's back SHINee's back'. They watched some SHINee's reality shows and then asked me 'Do you know that Minho went to London to see Manchester United and Taemin did scubadiving?' Oh boiiiii, i watched that like five years ago >.<

And also there's a friend that is into korean drama recently, and you know what.. he often uses korean language that he imitates from k drama. He suddenly said 'nuguseyo nuguseyo' in the class and it's so funny ^^

That isn't wrong, i just feel it's funny ^^"

Okay, I always be a lowkey kpopers, i never argued or even gave a damn to anti kpop or kdrama, it's their business not to like kpop or kdrama, not mine, lol, and now knowing almost all my friend like kpop or kdrama is a relief. Haha. 

Whatever is that, i think we should at least try or feel or taste it first before making any judgement, right?